The Great Indian Wedding Drama...

We all have been to the great Indian wedding at least once in our lives… We have the groom and the bride, their relatives ,people all nicely dressed up and of course the food that is dished out to the people attending the wedding and everyone eating as if there is no tomorrow...

But this blog is not about the wedding it’s about the conversation that takes place when the guy and girl meet up for the first time. And believe me guys it’s scary …

Now in this modern era the girl and the guy are given their own space to speak to each other… and their families having been already exchange their bio data and god knows what..…and while my friend was narrating this incident to me my mind was playing the scenes of the movie “Hyderabad blues” where nagesh kuknoor friend is sitting along side his would be wife in the drawing room with their families watching them intensely…it was quite funny if you see that scene…

So the guy was what I could make out was all prepared to dish out one question after another to the girl who I am told managed to hold on her own quite well..

And I am thinking is this some sort of an interview that’s going on between a HR guy and interviewee… and only on that basis he/she is going to decide whether they are compatible or not.. I guess is quite a risk because you will be right only 50 % of the time and I am not at all comfortable with such odds…

Statisticians who have nothing better to do have come out with a rather interesting theory. If ones are to believe them 70% of all the romances that’s happening are in the offices/workplace where you’re working and if you lucky enough to fall in those 70 % then you are quite safe…

Otherwise if you looking to get married in future taking some HR crash course won’t harm you…since you will be deciding what’s good for you on the basis of one interview same like those guys when they hire you….scary isn’t it if you get it wrong…

The Heroes of Kargil:8th anniversary..

They'd promised their families they'd come back soon. They more than kept their word. Went as mere men. Came back as heroes. In coffins.

"THEY GAVE THEIR TODAY FOR OUR TOMORROW"

At 15000-ft, you are not normal. You cannot be. The human body is attuned to a certain altitude.

And that's where our soldiers where. Fighting the enemy. Facing the bullets. Dying alone in the snow. Falling to death from the high ridges. No one hears their scream. It's such a lonely death. A tiny piece of metal is all what it takes to die.

They were our infantrymen. The finest in the world. No other soldier has ever fought at these heights. At 15000ft, they can't move with ease. In Batalik, there are no tracks. Climb. Clamber. Crawl. A soldier carries a week's ration, ammunition, a 5.56mm assault rifle or a mortar or a rocket launcher. He carries over 20 kgs on his back as he pulls himself up on this rugged, cruel terrain.

He doesn't sleep. He doesn't have time to eat. He doesn't have time to urinate. Life is not what it is. Life is a shell. It is the terror of death. It is the courage of facing it. It is fear, raw, unalloyed, unrelenting.... the enemy is up there, somewhere hidden. It can see you, can track you down like a rat, can pick you out so effortlessly...and yet these men move, slowly but with determination to fight for the nation. To die for the nation.

You know how it feels to be up there in the cold, cold mountains, carrying a heavy backpack with a gnawing fear that you will never see your eight-year-old daughter. That sweet little thing with a ponytail and a smile that lights up your world. You may not hear her giggles, see her climb your shoulder, run around, throw her dolls in anger, paint the walls in doodles.... You will not be there for her.

You know what fear is. That is the fear. Not being there. Death is not what matters. What matter is that you will not matter anymore. And yet the soldiers go up the hills, like the charge of the light brigade, never asking questions, never expecting an answer. They know they have a duty, they have a pledge, they have a promise to keep. Their tryst with destiny.

It is not easy to imagine a soldier, an infantry man's life up there in Batalik, where the wind can sear your windpipe, chill your brains, make your eyes weep with pain and lungs cry out in sheer exhaustion. Brave. That is what these soldiers were. Brave in the face of death. Brave in the face of fear. Facing bullets.more than Six hundred of them died. Let not their death go waste, unacknowledged.Remember them!!!!

http://www.kashmir-information.com/Heroes/salute.html